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Dave Kang's avatar

Hey Rick, we discussed this topic a while back on one of my posts, at the time I suggested Freedom was the highest aim, you suggested Meaning was. Well like you, after nearly 2 years of "freedom" I have come around to your way of thinking. At the time I was trying to define freedom not as time/money freedom, which is what most people think of, but I was trying to frame it as existential freedom. But after thinking (and living) it out, I think what I was really trying to define was in fact Meaning. I do still differentiate time/money freedom vs existential freedom as a material vs spiritual contrast, but at the end of the day, there can be no existential freedom without some kind of undergirding meaning.

Put more simply: a person without freedom but who has meaning can live a rich and rewarding life, even if it's a struggle at times. But a person with freedom and no meaning is destined for ennui, listlessness, purposelessness, etc which are all a form of privileged existential suffering.

In practice I'm still working out what all of the above mean for me, I find myself oscillating between enjoying my freedom but wrestling frequently with what to do with said freedom. At many points over the past couple years I've found myself asking, "What am I doing here?", (not geographically but existentially) which is a meaning question, not a freedom question.

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Danishes all the way down's avatar

Really appreciated this read. It’s a good reminder that aimless wandering won’t bring more fulfillment than grinding 90-hour weeks, but having the freedom to pursue meaning on your own terms is what makes all the struggle worthwhile. Excited to see where your book project goes!

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