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thefreedominion's avatar

The whole idea that we have innate passions that can be unearthed by simply looking inward is flawed. Sure, there are examples of people who found their passion or purpose early, but 1) the discovery happened by getting out there and trying stuff, and 2) a fair amount of luck plays into when someone gets exposure to what ends up being a passion/purpose. The trick is to try a ton of $h!t and embrace being terrible for a while. The interest won't be strong enough in most things to push past the "I'm terrible at this" stage, but every once in a while it will be, and that's where the magic happens. I think I've heard Josh Waitzkin talk about how passion comes much later after you've already worked at something for a long time, once proficiency is starting to compound. Basically the opposite of how we're told it works.

Love the quadrant, by the way. I'm working on a piece right now about trade-offs so it really landed.

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Yi Xue's avatar

My “variation on the Ikigai theme”: love what you do and do it well, and your life will be alright.

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